I’m rolling my eyes because you CAN be a good woman and a dude know it, but still won’t act right. Whether he believes in God or not.
I agree wholeheartedly, it’s amazing how much of our self value goes into what a man deems to be “good”, when a significant amount of them certainly could care less about the image they portray to women. But I’m sleep tho.
Girl yes…like why would God sit around and say certain things to women and not men. I think a lot of the rules should be the same. If not, then the world is how it should be and he ain’t gonna destroy it
I hate shit like this because simply because the way it lumps all men that don’t commit into one category . Though it may seem common every man has his own reasons as to why he won’t commit .
But since we wanna bring faith into the matter .. let’s discuss the huge generational gap between what marriage means . I find it odd that as big as my family is we have very few marriages . i have uncles over the age of 40 that ain’t even married .
i was never taught a value system in which marriage was a goal . Sex was always the goal . i was taught to chase the orgasm as many of my contemporaries .
But i remember reading a journal entry on this topic which was very interesting . It gave a few stats on this generation and the rate in which marriage in the US is dramatically declining .It was sickening reading all that shit honestly because i related to a lot of it .
Young men aren’t bred to marry . It’s like we’re bred to make babies but not commit . We have so many men in MY community that are too busy chasing pussy themselves instead of raising younger men to be better .
They’ve taught the youth street smarts instead of morals and values and lessons in faith . but one of my goals in life is to be a husband and a father . I’ve never witnessed a successful and happy marriage up close and i know i want to break that mold ,
Slim you make a lot of great points about men not being taught commitment. It’s a massive slap in the face to women that are of faith because they are raised to expect commitment, and to feel like shit if they also want to chase the orgasm let alone just enjoy one.
So you have generations of women feeling shitty about wanting sex, but wanting it. They also have been raised with all kinds of images of fairytale weddings and are waiting for their prince to show up.
But as men are taught commitment phobia, women find themselves in situations where they are constantly compromising and feeling terrible if they do want commitment or abstaining from relationships completely to avoid the pain and confusion of dealing with guys like this.
And furthermore, to deal with the text in the pic, when men choose to not commit it’s not about how good a woman is. The text IS NOT the truth.
If he doesn’t want to lock it down he’s not. It doesn’t matter if he’s a Atheist, Christian, 5 percenter, Jewish, agnostic, if he doesn’t want to commit he’s not.